BDSM, or bondage domination sadomasochism, has had a bad rap from the vanillas since the whole Judeo-Christian thing came into fashion and it became de rigeur for citizens to polarise life, the universe and everything into Good and Evil and copulate only in the missionary position.
And while times they may be a-changing, most of us would still shuffle in our seats if someone mentioned that they were a sub who got off on being being collared, tied up and whipped. Read more...
So the research on this was so interesting to me. For anyone thinking of trawling the internetwebs for BDSM be warned that what you will find will give you as much insight into the reality of everyday BDSM relationships as what 'normal' porn does into 'normal' relationships. It's a bad reference basically.
these babies are my favourite. who needs nasty chinese metal handcuffs that hurt and cut tendons when you have fine leather wrist cuffs and a little bit of rope. they're truly beautiful. the ones i fell in love with had pink detailing. just love that.
as an addendum to the column some other stuff BurningLash pointed out was the fact that of the 11 000 + members on the site, most are subs and of those most are men. only 500 of the subs are actually women.
over and out plums.
*apart from the cuffs both images are from photobucket. thanks nameless peoples.